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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: Falling in Love with the Living Earth
This beautiful, bounteous, life-giving planet we call Earth has given birth to each one of us, and each one of us carries the Earth within every cell of our body. […]
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A Simple Pause: A Way to Peace
Sometimes when the pull and push of life begins to wear down our resilience, taking a pause to be still is an enormous gift, an enormous act of freedom. In […]
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The Paradox of Freedom
Freedom is a paradox. To have freedom of body is to recognize the body’s limits and simultaneously requires building strength, stamina, flexibility and vibrancy within the limits of our body […]
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Loss, Grief and the Joy That Awaits Us
The year of 2020 has been one for the history books. Every one of us has experienced a gamut of emotions including fear, loss, sadness, despair, hope, gratitude, care, anger, frustration, […]
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The Grand River, All Nations Grand River Water Walk – and Five Lessons Learned
I have the honour of helping to organize and participate in the All Nations Grand River Water Walk from its inception to our upcoming walk in September 2020. A great […]
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This Year will be Different…
I planted a seed intention this past Solstice and gave it to the Great Mother, the Mother of all Life so that new life will be born. I honoured this […]
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Gently Transforming the Mind: The Power of Self Compassion
Some days it feels really discouraging and difficult to focus on the positive way forward in life when the inner critic is loud, aggressive and harsh in tone and insinuations […]
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Why Learn to Forgive?
“Forgiveness means giving up hope for a better past.” Lily Tomlin The past. Wow, what a trip we can take with the past. There are pleasant trips down memory lane […]
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Peace Matters: Why Do the Inner Work?
Peace matters. This affirmation and ethic holds deep meaning for me. It pulls me toward my life’s work, my life’s joy and my life’s commitment (purpose). One might even say […]
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Self Kindness Response: Self Care in the Midst of a Fire
“The house is on fire.” Greta Thurnberg, a 16 year old Swedish student said these words to the World Economic Forum just one day after the Notre Dame Cathedral’s roof […]
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An Invitation to the Reiki Path
When we first start practising Reiki, many of us have amazing stories to share. The healing releases we first experience remain with us for a lifetime! After 20 years of […]
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Keep What’s True in Front of You!
“Keep what’s true in front of you, Old Man said. You won’t get lost that way. I was asking about making my way through the bush. He was talking about […]
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The Reiki Way: Simplify Your Spiritual Practice
A friend of mine shared with me a teaching he received from his mentor – his mentor said to him, I cannot teach you about being awakened or enlightened, but […]
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Winter Solstice: An Extraordinary Path to Peace
You think this is just another year in your life? This year has been given to you – it’s the gift you have been living all year. It has given […]
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Forgive the Past. Remember it Wisely
We all have been wounded and hurt—the heart broken or seared by the pain of betrayal, abuse or neglect. I too can remember a deep betrayal, a lie told me […]
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Are you listening to what your body is telling you?
Listen Up! Last fall Jennifer Bodenham, a team development coach, and I sat down to create a 3-part podcast series about Boundaries. Throughout these podcasts, we explored why we need […]
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Peace and the Crazy Drama of Relationships
Recently, a colleague shared with me how she had found herself in a situation where ‘a lot of drama’ was playing out in a business relationship. Her question was about […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: The Self Kindness Response
Recently I had a conversation with someone who felt she needed ‘boundaries’ in her relationships but struggled with creating boundaries because what she believed she really wanted was ‘connection’. She […]
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Stepping on the Path to Peace: Intentions that Inspire in 2018
It was quite cold for the past couple of weeks, with enough snow to use my snowshoes. I love this weather as does Carlie. She has certain ‘snow games’ she […]
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A Santa of Peace and Kindness
I met Santa the other Saturday. It was an unexpected and most extraordinary meeting. This Santa was a she and appeared slim as though she takes care of herself. She […]
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Grounding and Healing Meditation
Although the quietness of Reiki in the midst of an overwhelming and distressing moment has become my go-to, I know that other times, opening to a guided meditation and surrendering […]
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FOUR STANDARDS & PRACTICES OF SELF RESPECT
Think about someone whom you respect with everything in your heart, almost whom you radically respect. Reflect upon their actions, their values, the way they care for others and themselves, […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Healing: Bending Towards Life
Stories of true healing inspire me. Koans and wisdom parables and sayings which expand my spirit and calm my mind, call my body to breathe, relax and expand into its […]
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The Divine Art of Healing: Using your Energy Wisely
In my second podcast conversation with Colin Hillstrom, we begin with the question ‘why bother with healing?’ Why do we need to become conscious to heal? What really is the […]
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The Divine Art of Healing
All suffering and illness comes from a perceived sense of separation (an unloved state). Dr. Leonard Laskow (MD) Healing is how we recover, repair, restore and retain health and […]
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A Moment of Love
Whoever does not love, does not know God, because God is love. – I John 4:8 The wind is breezy, moving and swaying the long grass in the field. As […]
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In Conversation with Colin About Healing – Podcast #3
Shirley Lynn and Colin Hillstrom, a Transformation coach, continue their “fireside chat” about healing. We explore our experiences with healing, what we understand healing to be, and how healing connects us to spiritual awakening. […]
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In Conversation with Colin About Healing – Podcast #2
Shirley Lynn and Colin Hillstrom, a Transformation coach, continue their “fireside chat” about healing. We explore our experiences with healing, what we understand healing to be, and how healing connects us to spiritual awakening. […]
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In Conversation with Colin About Healing – Podcast #1
Shirley Lynn and Colin Hillstrom, a Transformation coach, hold a series of “fireside chat” discussions about healing. We explore our experiences with healing, what we understand healing to be, and how healing connects us […]
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The Hidden Blessing of Spring
The Joy of Spring Spring is here and so we often find ourselves also getting more spring in our step too! As I write this blog today, I find myself […]
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Spring Equinox Peace Circle: Forgiving our Past, Rebirthing our Capacity to Love
Why Peace? “Who will work for peace on our planet? In our relationships? Within ourselves?” These are questions we are currently asking ourselves. With all the negativity that is flooding […]
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Peace Circle Podcast #3
Join Shirley Lynn Martin, Karen McCarthy and Tonya Noble as we again invite you into Peace Circle with us, to cross the threshold into sacred space and time. This is […]
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Peace Circle Podcast # 2
Join Shirley Lynn Martin, Karen McCarthy and Tonya Noble as we again invite you into Peace Circle with us, to cross the threshold into sacred space and time. Join us […]
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Introduction to Peace Circle Podcast # 1
Join Shirley Lynn Martin, Karen McCarthy (Peace Circle Keeper) and Tonya Noble (Peace Circle member, psychotherapist and more) as we offer a brief experience of Peace Circle. This podcast is […]
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In Conversation with Jen about Boundaries for Healthy & Joyful Living – Part Three
Listen in as Jennifer Bodenham, a team development coach, and I conclude our conversation about boundaries and self kindness. In this final (of three) podcast, we explore why we need boundaries, what […]
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Listening to our Bodies: A Path to Relating Peacefully
Listen Up! Recently Jennifer Bodenham, a team development coach, and I sat down to create a 3-part podcast series about Boundaries. Throughout these podcasts, we explore why we need boundaries, what they are and […]
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In Conversation with Jen about Boundaries for Healthy & Joyful Living
Listen in as Jennifer Bodenham, a team development coach, and I converse about boundaries. In this series of three podcasts, we explore why we need boundaries, what they are and one […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: The Wonder of Self Kindness
HAPPY NEW YEAR! In this next year, my overarching theme at Feathers, Rainbows & Roses will be peaceful relating with all our relations. Peaceful relating, as a practice and an […]
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Natasha’s Thai Curry
Roughly chop 2 onions, 2 carrots and a half celery stalk and sauté them in a big pot with oil (I use avocado oil, but any oil will do). Add 3 […]
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Shirley Lynn and Shelley in Conversation (continued)
Listen in as Shirley Lynn and Shelley discuss what brings people to soul coaching with Shirley Lynn at Feathers, Rainbows and Roses. What does it require to follow your own heart path?
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: Just Like Me!
Nurturing compassion, connection, and empathy between ourselves and others can be as simple as affirming the phrase ‘just like me’ where we might otherwise judge, criticize or condemn. This compassion […]
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Getting to Know Shirley Lynn Martin
Description Join Shirley Lynn Martin and Shelley in this first conversation as they explore Shirley Lynn’s journey to where and who she is today. They delve into what experiences have […]
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An Attitude of Gratitude
(Originally posted October 2013) These beautiful fall days have made it easy to be thankful and grateful for the harvest we are gathering. As I have been collecting the dahlia […]
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The Power of Vulnerability and Presence
I remember almost 25 years ago, sitting in my friend’s apartment crying in Marie’s arms as the waves of old (but now fresh) grief flowed out from my heart. Once […]
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The Power of Empathy
I just finished reading The Aviator’s Wife, an historical novel about Anne Morrow Lindbergh, the lyrical author and first female aviator whose marriage to Charles A. Lindbergh brought her both […]
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Overcoming Obstacles. Lessons of the Breath
I was born utterly vulnerable, dependent and skill-less. And in the moment of my death, I will once again be vulnerable, dependent and my acquired life skills won’t change the […]
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Trust: A Necessary Confidence on the Path to Reconciliation
The only relationships in this world that have ever been worthwhile and enduring have been those in which one person could trust another. Samuel Smiles When those we love or […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: From Love to Courage
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. Lao Tzu During a web search for quotes about courage, I found that most quotations […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: What is Love Really?
Why can’t we give love that one more chance Why can’t we give love … Because love’s such an old fashioned word And love dares you to care for The […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: I Want Change Please. You Go First!
Sunday mornings Carlie and I meet with our tracking club to practise developing tracking skills. Basically, we each follow a track (or scent trail) with several items for the dog […]
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Peace on Earth: Get Ready for It
We have just about completed our rotation around the sun for 2015. That’s approximately 149,600,000 km over 365 days travelling at 30 km/second. Mind boggling, isn’t it? As we celebrate […]
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#loveoverfear
Over the last few hours, days, months we have experienced the best and the worst of humanity. Violent acts fuelled by hatred and total disregard for human life juxtaposed with […]
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Peace Together: The Power of Vision in Community
Whenever I’m invited to be the celebrant of someone’s wedding, there are three key questions I ask them to answer prior to making plans for the wedding ceremony. The first […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: The Blessing of Stillness to Lead
I just finished teaching a 3-day Reiki Level II course during which I was reminded of the power of three major energy centres in our bodies, and how in ‘stillness’ […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: Visioning a New Community
Over the past few years I have sat in Circle with various groups and teachers, being awed every time by the magic that happens within this incredible system of transformation […]
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The Gifts of Autumn: Let Go and Enjoy the Ride
by Lucy Martin Autumn has definitely arrived – the leaves are slowly changing colour and dropping from the trees, the air is crisp, the earth smells of decaying organic matter, […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: Opening Ourselves to Peace
If, for one day, we can live in a world without aggression and hostility, we can imagine how much more is possible. – United Nations statement This weekend we have […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: The Joy of Connection with a Ladybug
Those that go searching for love only make manifest of their own lovelessness, and the loveless never find love, only the loving find love, and they never have to seek […]
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It’s In You to Be Who You Are
submitted by Lucy Martin Last week I had an amazing opportunity to help with a temperament test on a litter of 8 week-old puppies. I’m assuming most of you are […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: Walking Feet First
This past weekend I had the privilege being lakeside, spending heart-time with friends, and even a bit of kayaking with Carlie (although she was more focused on what games her […]
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Living Life with No Regrets
by Mary Martin It has been more than a few years since a good friend and I shared a laugh over breakfast about turning 65. We both pondered the tasks […]
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Finding the Journey to Peace and Fulfillment When You Are Stuck
It has been a glorious weekend. Perfect warmth, perfect sun, a gentle breeze and blue sky. Though your list of ‘to-dos’ may be long like mine, I’m opting to write this blog […]
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What Are You Training For?
Submitted by Lucy Martin For the past 1½ years, Rayna and I have been working on the various skills and nuances of the CKC sport of Formal Obedience. On paper, […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: Tell Your Heart Story
“We cannot wish old feelings away nor do spiritual exercises for overcoming them until we have woven a healing story that transforms our previous life’s experience and gives meaning to […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace: The Journey of Getting Life Back on Track
Peace is the result of retraining your mind to process life as it is, rather than as you think it should be.” Wayne Dyer There have been several times in […]
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Wisdom’s Way to Peace with our Mothers
Mother’s Day. Perhaps you (like me) will be having a long-distance conversation with your mother. Some of you may be sharing a moment with your mother’s spirit through memory or […]
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Peace and the Drama of Relationships
Not long ago, a colleague shared with me a situation in which ‘a lot of drama’ was playing out in a business relationship. She was wondering how she could gracefully […]
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Peaceful Relations is for the Birds (too)
submitted by Lucy Martin This weekend I enjoyed a leisurely walk to the river with Carlie and Rayna. While the dogs were sniffing and prowling about, I had the pleasure […]
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Stepping into Peaceful Relating: Challenging Old Paradigms
Awhile back, I received a blog about Paradigms that has stayed with me. Today I want to share my reflections on this topic. I was struck by the power of paradigms under which […]
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Four Standards of Self Respect
Think about someone you respect with everything in your heart, who you almost radically respect. Reflect upon their actions, their values, the way they care for others and themselves, the […]
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Relating Peacefully: Make Love your Life Investment
Carlie and I have been preparing for our first correction/fun match in Rally Obedience. So this past Saturday I set up a Rally course so Carlie, Rayna and I could […]
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Peaceful Relating: Finding Scents with Love
This past Saturday Carlie and I participated in a workshop in canine nosework/scenting. The day once again provided me with opportunities to reflect upon key dynamics, skills and behaviours needed […]
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Relating Peacefully Within Me
Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I’ll meet you there. When the soul lies down in that grass, the world is too full to talk […]
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Hitting ‘Reset’ for the New Year
Submitted by Mary Martin There is something alluring for me about standing on the threshold of a New Year. It’s a time to reflect back on the past year with […]
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2015 New Year’s Blessing to all!
Wisdom’s Way to Peaceful Relating: Welcoming in the Opportunities of 2015 It’s 2015 and something NEW is in the air, not just on the calendar. For me, subtle shifts of clarity […]
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Creating Peaceful Relationships: Listening to Christmas
Creating peaceful relationships has been our theme and focus for this past year. Having a spiritual theme or focus helps to light the path, making it clearer and a calm […]
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Off the Wall and Loving it
Yesterday afternoon at a training class with Carlie, I became aware of the freedom of being able to work with Carlie off tether. When she was still a puppy, learning […]
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Celebration Time! Announcing my First Year Anniversary Promotion
What is better than this? Announcing my First Year Anniversary Promotion I have truly enjoyed and been grateful for my decision one year ago to move my office to the […]
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Celebrating One Year Later…
As I was doing sorting and clearing work, I came across this blog from last November 24th, exactly one year ago. It struck me that it is still applicable so I […]
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Creating Peaceful Relationships: Remembering the Past Honestly
Although this week’s blog is a departure from my usual story-telling approach, I hope it still elicits reflection about the power of belonging (or the cost of exclusion) and the […]
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Change is a Process – Are You Ready for It?
Last week we looked at the initial stages of change – pre-contemplation and contemplation. In both of these early stages, we are unaware of our need for change, or may […]
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Change is a Process – Set Yourself Up for Success
Like the ever-changing seasons, we too experience change and transition throughout our lives. For some of us change is easy – an “easy come, easy go” kind of mentality. For […]
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Creating Peaceful Relations: Celebrating our Animal Companions
In the Catholic tradition, St. Francis of Assisi (patron saint to animals, merchants and ecology) is well renowned for his prayer “make me an instrument of your peace.” I believe […]
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Elmira Women in Business
This year I began meeting with a small group of women who also are business owners here in Elmira, ON. We get together every other month, not to compete with each […]

